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Words from Ayomidoyin😌❤️'s avatar

What the actual fuck???

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Chineme's avatar

Its the fact that my brain JUST NOW registered it as workplace harassment simply because chatgpt called it that

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Words from Ayomidoyin😌❤️'s avatar

So sorry that happened to you🫂❤️

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Gold💕's avatar

Like ‘Eaten “???

Did he expect you to blush or something 😂😂

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Chineme's avatar

Help me ask oooooo

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Lara's avatar

It’s actually workplace harassment

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Chineme's avatar

It didn't register until right now lowkey.😪

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Lara's avatar

🫂

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Nonso Sonya's avatar

Saying I don’t care as a response to “I have a boyfriend “

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Nonso Sonya's avatar

NOT COOL kings

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Wunisod's avatar

Of course it’s harassment😭

And why is it always the 32 year oldssss😭😭

Eewwwww

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ifedayo 💌's avatar

What the actual hell 😭

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Zas's avatar

The audacity men have ehnn

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Momentswithme's avatar

And yes it is harassment. God abeg I use God and beg you.

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Chineme's avatar

Yes ma

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Momentswithme's avatar

And na person "best dad in the world" be that o

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Momentswithme's avatar

First of, HR dey mad? Is your info with the person that the person is okaying nonsense?

I'm sorry you had to go through that cause I kid you not, if someone asked me such mid breakfast, I'm going to vomit. Like have some decorum sir.

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Goddess Writes's avatar

Of course it's harrasment. Which one is HR okayed it? Then...the age gap sef🤦

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Chineme's avatar

Bro, when I mentioned the age gap, he said that's the same age gap of our parents

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Goddess Writes's avatar

🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦

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Oyin Osikoya's avatar

Wow I’m so sorry this happened. I had a similar experience during my SIWES but it was with weird men I met on transit. 3 of them were significantly older than me. I will never understand why some of them do this

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Praise's Thoughts's avatar

Some men are something else 😭

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Kingsley's avatar

wow. I'm really sorry about your experience with such people, and tbh, they're everywhere. 😭😭

yea, had same shit happen to me too, don't ask. 🥲😂

oh and siwes is 6 months? mines actually 3 months. they kind of like divided it. one in 200 and the other in 300. so that way, it's easier.

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you write so well, btw. 🙂‍↕️

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Chineme's avatar

Ours was 6. A whole semester off school.

Also, thank youuuu 😊

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Precious Oladimeji's avatar

I kept screaming throughout the entire post.

What?!

Just what is wrong with these grown ass, wrinkled dick married men always trying to take advantage of young women?

So sorry you had to experience that dear. Sending lots of hugs 🫂

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Chineme's avatar

Thank you

I had even forgotten it sef. I just remembered due to another post I read.

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Sophie In Wonderland's avatar

Oh my god, this made my blood boil. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. And yes, that was absolutely harassment. The fact that you even had to wonder shows how much we normalize it. I’m glad you stood your ground though. You deserved so much better.

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Chineme's avatar

Like it didn't even click that it was harassment.

I just took it as normal men nonsense 😒

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Sophie In Wonderland's avatar

Exactly. We get so used to it we don’t even question it anymore 😕

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