An abortion is a medical procedure first of all, it's simply that
It's your choice to choose whether you think it's bad or not
But I find it crazy that you're asking about her dying, as if the author didn't clearly speak about the procedure not being carried out by quacks.
Second of all, don't you think that there was a higher chance of her dying from a triplet pregnancy where there was no money on ground to take care of the kids, not to talk of complications in childbirth.
I'm honestly still forming my own opinions on abortion and all
But one thing I know is that if you're not financially or emotionally capable to have a child and take care of that child, Do not bring that child into the world.
If we don't address the root of any problem then we aren't ready to solve it.
The root problem isn't abortion or even having the children sef
The root problem is unprotected sex, lack of access to good healthcare, purity culture, a lack of responsibility and shame surrounding sex.
Lastly, the boy isn't the only problem, his family is a bigger problem, because tell me why they're hiding a father of 3 like he wasn't there when they were conceived.
I saw post commenting on this and it’s intrigued me enough to know why my friend was pissed. Safe to say I’m pissed too.
All I have to say is that we have enabled stupid people for far too long and given them opportunities to prove to us that they an empty head and they lack empathy.
I wish the girl and her family all the best and hope that people really do help them out.
also, he’s most likely part of the red pill community that believe in men chasing women, cause how did he even get to this conclusion. i’m trying to wrap my head around his thought process. what!!!!
The world has a way of blaming women for everything.
If this 19 years old, raise the children on her own and they decide to despise the foolish boy, the world would still say that she raised them wrong and made them hate him…
I wish Child support was actually a thing in Nigeria
Abortion of a totally healthy fetus is wrong. Except the child has some congenital defect that would make them unable to survive once they're out, I wouldn't advice abortion. Instead don't so sex at all... The contraceptive pills are an option and are quite reliable but if you can't afford them, don't so sex. Seek Jesus and rest.
While I understand your side, the truth remains that pre-marital sex has always and will always happen.
Contraceptives fail,condoms break.
But after all is said and done, why bring children into a world where they can't be provided for. Financial needs can't be met, Emotional needs might not be met.
The world is harsh enough, why involve a new soul if you can't at least cushion them and protect them.
The involvement of a new soul starts with the act. So tired of preventing this from the root cause, the act should be avoided. Then try other birth control methods hoping you're not one of the unfortunate odds in statistics that OCPs fail and diaphragms break. I don't think killing a child you formed from your actions because you can't take care of them is a god solution when there were other choices you'd have made that wouldn't have led to their murder
As someone that listens to the radio a lot, trust me Nigerian radio is not what you want to be listening to if you want to keep sane😂.
There's an entire generation with their weird ass archaic beliefs on there.
An abortion is a medical procedure first of all, it's simply that
It's your choice to choose whether you think it's bad or not
But I find it crazy that you're asking about her dying, as if the author didn't clearly speak about the procedure not being carried out by quacks.
Second of all, don't you think that there was a higher chance of her dying from a triplet pregnancy where there was no money on ground to take care of the kids, not to talk of complications in childbirth.
I'm honestly still forming my own opinions on abortion and all
But one thing I know is that if you're not financially or emotionally capable to have a child and take care of that child, Do not bring that child into the world.
If we don't address the root of any problem then we aren't ready to solve it.
The root problem isn't abortion or even having the children sef
The root problem is unprotected sex, lack of access to good healthcare, purity culture, a lack of responsibility and shame surrounding sex.
Lastly, the boy isn't the only problem, his family is a bigger problem, because tell me why they're hiding a father of 3 like he wasn't there when they were conceived.
This country sha
I don’t think education was ever the problem. They know these things. They know rhetoric right things. They just don’t care
I saw post commenting on this and it’s intrigued me enough to know why my friend was pissed. Safe to say I’m pissed too.
All I have to say is that we have enabled stupid people for far too long and given them opportunities to prove to us that they an empty head and they lack empathy.
I wish the girl and her family all the best and hope that people really do help them out.
*laughs in swahili*
Re-education needs to be implemented in this country sha... Across all spheres of community life.
Exactly 💯
Lol, but getting an abortion? Isn't that a bad thing? I mean, obviously.. why would you... recommend that?
If she dies, what then?
It is bad... But these are extenuating circumstances.
Hm.. if so.
Honestly, Mandy has said it all
ahn ahn, where are all these daft men from??, these takes just keep getting worse
Sheyyyy
this stupid man (second) probably started having sex way earlier than nineteen
Exactly my thoughts but I said not to assume
what!!!!, if the assumption about him being educated is right, all degrees and certifications he holds should be revoked!!!
also, he’s most likely part of the red pill community that believe in men chasing women, cause how did he even get to this conclusion. i’m trying to wrap my head around his thought process. what!!!!
Main character syndrome
The world has a way of blaming women for everything.
If this 19 years old, raise the children on her own and they decide to despise the foolish boy, the world would still say that she raised them wrong and made them hate him…
I wish Child support was actually a thing in Nigeria
The children blow now and the boy will come crawling back
Dyggggggg
Abortion of a totally healthy fetus is wrong. Except the child has some congenital defect that would make them unable to survive once they're out, I wouldn't advice abortion. Instead don't so sex at all... The contraceptive pills are an option and are quite reliable but if you can't afford them, don't so sex. Seek Jesus and rest.
While I understand your side, the truth remains that pre-marital sex has always and will always happen.
Contraceptives fail,condoms break.
But after all is said and done, why bring children into a world where they can't be provided for. Financial needs can't be met, Emotional needs might not be met.
The world is harsh enough, why involve a new soul if you can't at least cushion them and protect them.
The involvement of a new soul starts with the act. So tired of preventing this from the root cause, the act should be avoided. Then try other birth control methods hoping you're not one of the unfortunate odds in statistics that OCPs fail and diaphragms break. I don't think killing a child you formed from your actions because you can't take care of them is a god solution when there were other choices you'd have made that wouldn't have led to their murder
Lol, but getting an abortion? Isn't that a bad thing? I mean, obviously.. why would you... recommend that?
If she dies, what then? But, oh well...
Lol, but getting an abortion? Isn't that a bad thing? I mean, obviously.. why would you... recommend that?
If she dies, what then? But, oh well...